Deceived helps women betrayed by partners who act out sexually better understand what is happening, garner validation for their experiences, and find a path that offers clarity, direction, and voice. Black guides readers to understand aspects of their personal histories that have lead them to be in relationships plagued by sexual betrayal, and reveals how their partner's behavior can be addictive. Black then outlines proactive steps readers can take to build healthier relationships and take care of themselves, illustrated by accounts of real women who have done so successfully. She teaches women how to set non-negotiable boundaries and honor themselves by making choices derived from esteem and integrity.
